Madaling sabihin kesa gawin, pero para saan pa ba't nasa masaya at pinaka magandang stage ako ngayon ng aking single life kung hindi ko ishashare kung paano ako nahantong sa ganitong lagay.
Maraming ways para maka move-on, sabi nga nila "it's a process". Totoong time heals everything, but habang gapang pagong ang oras... Kailangan may gawin ka. I think that's the summary of this post, move on by moving forward (naks).
Anyway, here goes my list!
1) Manuod ng KDrama
Hahaha, sigurado nahulaan niyo na na kasama to sa listahan, pero malaking bagay sakin ang panonood ng mga heart wrenching (waw) and good vibes na Korean dramas. At ang maganda dyan, sa huli, umiiyak ka para sa ibang tao at hindi dahil sa problema mo. Marerealize mo na part lang ang heart breaks ng life, lahat dumadaan dito, at higit pa sa higit sa lahat may mahahanap kang Oppa sa ending. Hehehe!
Damn, In Ho! :(
2) HoHol with Friends!
Time to reconnect with people na hindi mo masyado nakakasama nung nahumaling ka sa pag-ibig. Yan ang ganda ng friendship! Ang pag-ibig naman it comes in all forms, and true friendship will provide that love that you are currently lacking in your heart.
3) Work! Work! Work!
(aka Distract not Destruct Yourself)
Madalas diyan dahil sa broken-heart binebreak mo na ang buhay mo (inom pa more! Lol). Pero ito ang narealize ko, sige iiyak mo yan, pero dapat darating yung time na imbis na ubusin mo yung energy mo sa makakasama sayo, gamitin mo ito sa bagay na pasasalamatan mo sarili mo sa future. Kumita ka, gawin mo na yang plano mong mag business, mag apply ka na dyan sa dream job mo!
Manila-Cebu in one day for Miss U work!
4) Do one thing that scares you!
Yung feeling "nothing to lose" ka na, gamitin mo tong pagka FEARLESS mo to conquer your past fears! Cliff diving ba yan, hiking sa Mount Pulag, o surfing, ito yung panahon na magagawa mo yan dahil wala nang mas sasakit sa heart break! Haha! Best part is, you're creating better memories for yourself, nakaka proud sa sarili pag nagawa at nalampasan mo yang mga yan!
Kapit lang!! Level-up trekking at the Masungi Georeserve last weekend.
5) Makinig sa mga love empowering songs.
And finally, ang classic solution sa pag move on, makinig ng mga kanta na nakaka relate sayo. Sila naman mag adjust! Hahaha.
Kidding aside, recently Pioneer Insurance held their #MoveOnLang Songwriting Competition Finals Night at the Hard Rock Cafe. Was able to listen to all 10 songs live. Nakakatuwa coz ang babata pa nila pero ang huhusay na nila gumawa ng kanta (at ang dami nang mga feels!). Listen to all TEN SONGS HERE.
Watch the Facebook Live from last night's event HERE.
Host Chino Lui Pio with the esteemed judges Nonoy Tan (FILSCAP Chairman), Lorenzo Chan Jr. (Pioneer Life Inc. President), Joy Mesina (One Music PH Editor in Chief), Noel Cabangon (FILSCAP Trustee), and Rico Blanco (FILSCAP President).
Watch the Facebook Live from last night's event HERE.
Host Chino Lui Pio with the esteemed judges Nonoy Tan (FILSCAP Chairman), Lorenzo Chan Jr. (Pioneer Life Inc. President), Joy Mesina (One Music PH Editor in Chief), Noel Cabangon (FILSCAP Trustee), and Rico Blanco (FILSCAP President).
All ten songs are original and impressive, but my favorite at that time was Invincible by Yosef Escoto of San Beda College, Alabang. Tune was really moving, words were empowering - by end of the song, I was really clapping along with the crowd! "Pang winner!" I was telling my seatmates the whole time, and true enough, Escoto bagged the top spot and Php 100, 000!
First and second runners-up were Benjamin Quijano of UP-LB for Aking Mundo, and Kenneth Roquid of UP-Diliman for Alive. They both went home with Php 50, 000 and Php 30, 000 respectively, while all ten finalists received Php 100,000 worth of insurance coverage from Pioneer + Php 10,000 for the 7 other finalists.
Gumawa ka nadin ba ng kanta para maka-get over?
Valentine's Day na pala, kamusta ang mga puso? 😜
6 Comments
Haha. Masaya naman ang puso ko Ana :D
ReplyDeleteSalamat sa tips! Might need for future reference Hehe. Gusto ko yung distract not destruct at syempre and KDrama :D :D :D
Love you Ruth! Ipasa na reaction paper sa sassy girl ha hahahaa! :D
Deletedi pa din ako makave on 2 years na im only 16 but i guess its greatest love ko huhu
ReplyDeleteOkay lang yan, darating din time na lilipat din attention mo somewhere else. Pwedeng pag tapak mo ng college iba nanaman ang gusto mo--law of life yan, everything is changing and moving iba ibang timing lang talaga so patience. :) Take care of yourself!
DeletePaano magmomove on kung hindi nmn naging kami?Imean 5 years ko siyang gusto pero never niya akong napansin
ReplyDeleteLaw of Science: Nothing is displaced unless it is replaced. Ibaling mo na sa iba ang attention mo, wag na sa kaniya pls. And not necessarily sa isang tao uli--pede mo din ilagay yang love and energy and attention mo sa bagay na passionate ka like career or travel or art. Make use of your time wisely, there is more to life. :) Peace!
DeleteYour turn! Always excited to read your comments! :)